Zdeňka Stiborová

* 1947

  • "And when I wanted to cry, I was sad... because my mother fell asleep early, she was tired, she had to get up early again in the morning, she had to milk the cow, whether it was Christmas or not Christmas, the animals had to be looked after, so she just fell asleep. My sister wasn't big, she fell asleep too, so I took a book and read. And the neighbours behind us, they were quite a big family and they had no responsibilities, no animals, nothing. And I stood up and I went with a bucket peretending to go for water to them because we had a broken pump, so I had to carry water in buckets from them, which was very difficult, but I went to get it. And I felt like I was in Andersen's fairy tale, The Little Match Girl. I just couldn't stand it, to kind of beat the loneliness, so when I pumped the water, I stayed at the pump and looked out the window as the whole family sat there talking, just having a nice Christmas Eve. And then I came home and I got the book Grandma by Božena Němcová and I had things right there that just picked out that helped me cry and made me feel better."

  • "Because my sister and I left on August 17, 1968, to visit my grandmother where my mother lived, and when we left Prague at midnight, I remember standing at the window and that night the sky was full of stars, it was incredible. And I was looking at it and I was like, 'God, it's beautiful, it's all so beautiful.' Now imagine this: we're travelling all night, and suddenly in the morning we arrive at Čierná pri Čope and there's this rumbling noise. What's going on? And they were transferring trains to another track there and we were a civilian or civilian train and we had to give way to a train that was going with soldiers and tanks just, we didn't know where, nothing. So we were standing at the window and we were looking and I said, 'What the hell is this? Didn't they say there was going to be a military exercise?'"

  • "Because my dad was a Volhynian Czech, the whole clan lived in Volhynia for years, and in that year 47 the Czech government decided that whoever wanted to return to the Czechoslovak Republic would be able to buy their way back and return, so around that time, around that year 47, a lot of people returned home to Bohemia. And among them was the family that included my dad, and he just didn't want to stay there without his family. He was already married to my mum, and they were expecting me, and they just decided to go with them."

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Farming kept us alive after Dad died

Zdeňka Stiborová in her childhood
Zdeňka Stiborová in her childhood
photo: witness´s archive

Zdeňka Stiborová, née Stelmasčuková, was born on 2 July 1947 in Malešovice near Brno. Her parents had arrived from Volhynia not long before her birth and were sent to settle the border area. They were given a house in Království, which is now part of Šluknov. Zdeňka Stiborová had a happy childhood until her father died when she was ten years old. Since then she had to take care of her little sister and help her mother with the farm. She longed to become a teacher, but after graduation she had to take a job and worked in an accounting office all her life. In the summer of 1968 she and her sister made a trip to Ukraine to the place where their parents grew up. While they were away, the country was occupied by Warsaw Pact troops and it was complicated to get back. In 2024, she was living in Mikulášovice in the Šluknov region.